if people give u advice to cope ur heart break time by saying “ooh it’s ok time will heal” or “he’s not the best for you”, dont buy that coz it’s just a F*%$ lie. here’s a real tips for you heart breaked’s (or whatever u may called)
1. dont even try to forget the person, dont try to stop contacting, just do normal, or make it even often, and when the rejection come and come suck it, keep it, feel the pain, untill u want to pyuck and pyuck till drop.
2. dont try to throw out all the memories and goodies, just remember it everytime u have a spare time, remember all the sweet memories and look at the goodies all the time (put the picture of u two everywhere near, and all the stuff in seenable place). remember it untill u wept like a river and ur nose bleed, the more swallow u got the more satisfaction u feel. the best time do it is everytime before sleep, wept untill u fall to sleep and wake up with an oscar winner for the best swallowed kind of eyes.
3. listen to the heatbreaked songs (eg. “so sick” by ne-yo)
and love songs (any sweet love song is ok) or even ur theme song over and over again. stay away from a inspirational songs like “let go” by frou frou or “life is wonderful” by jason mraz, or any other that include a tips to survive, let go, or happiness.
4. think about this starter passage : ” how unlucky i am” “why our loves is not enough to get he/she’s loves”, “what did i’ve done wrong?”, ” why me?”, (if u have other killer question better share one)
and think about the ugliness, the badness, and the weakness that we have which (assumed) make he/she dont love back.
DONT think that this is a “destiny” or “the best for us” or “a warning sign”, coz those things will never make u satisfied.
and also keep on thinking how great and good he/she is, all of the kindness, all of the sweetness, more than 3 times a day (and bring a 3ply extra tissue just in case u weep in an apropriate place).
5. started to looking for runway, like snacking, flirting, smoking,etc or everything that for all this time we halt because we want to look good in he/she’s eyes, do what ur heart want, but suicide is only for a coward coz by choosing suicide u wont be able to feel anymore, which make u cant feel the bitterness and the pain of being heartbreaked, so there’s no fun of it, we need to live to make the feeling of breaking come to lives.
6. talk about it, talk to everyone how suffered u are, how sad u are, how pityfull u are, and weep in their lap or shoulder, spread the pain, not to make the pain less but to make u even more remember it. wear black to comemorate, remembered the date u breaked, drink bitter coffe to add the bitterness, and dont ever ask him “is there still a hope for me to get ur love?” and “what can i do to make u love me” stuff coz it’s not about him it’s about u, ur heart, ur feeling, which is ur own problem not he/she’s.
7. dont try to do homicide or a revenge. why? coz without him/her there’s no living clues, no real bitter producer, no heartbreaker, and no more tips to make this pain even more great kinda feeling. if he/shes gone or dissapeared then u dont have more fun with ur heartbreak time no art of how to make its supreme pains.
u know there’s always bee a sweetness in a bitterness even its a tiny little bitsy

nb: im just an impulsive brokenhearted..relaxxx..tx u fettie my super wise guru


life is wonderfull

“Life Is Wonderful”

It takes a crane to build a crane
It takes two floors to make a story
It takes an egg to make a hen
It takes a hen to make an egg
There is no end to what I’m saying

It takes a thought to make a word
And it takes some words to make an action
It takes some work to make it work
It takes some good to make it hurt
It takes some bad for satisfaction

La la la la la la la life is wonderful
Ah la la la la la la life goes full circle
Ah la la la la la la life is wonderful
Al la la la la

It takes a night to make it dawn
And it takes a day to make you yawn brother
And it takes some old to make you young
It takes some cold to know the sun
It takes the one to have the other

And it takes no time to fall in love
But it takes you years to know what love is
It takes some fears to make you trust
It takes those tears to make it rust
It takes the dust to have it polished

Ha la la la la la la life is wonderful
Ah la la la la la la life goes full circle
Ah la la la la la la life is so full of
Ah la la la la la la life is so rough
Ah la la la la la la life is wonderful
Ah la la la la la la life goes full circle
Ah la la la la la la life is our love
Ah la la la la la

It takes some silence to make sound
It takes a loss before you found it
And it takes a road to go nowhere
It takes a toll to make you care
It takes a hole to make a mountain

Ah la la la la la la life is wonderful
Ah la la la la la la life goes full circle
Ha la la la la la life is wonderful
Ha la la la la la life is meaningful
Ha la la la la la life is wonderful
Ha la la la la la life it is…so… wonderful
It is so meaningful
It is so wonderful
It is meaningful
It is wonderful
It is meaningful
It goes full circle
Full circle

pagi ini lagu ini sangat menginspirasiku,

ketika sudah seminggu aku tinggal di banjarbaru dan kerja disini sepertinya ada yang menghilang dari diriku

udah gak ada yang namanya acara hedon ria yang ngopi2, yang jalan2, blanja2, nonton2, ngemall,

makan2 enak ama temen2, kayak lagi selibat.

dn tiba2 kata2 lagu ini sangat mengena, jauh di relung hatiku (alah) mengiyai kata2 MRaz tentang hidup,

bahwa memang berjalanseperti roda yang selalu berputar, yang terkadang diatas dan terkadang dibawah.

dan yang paling penting dan paling kuiyai sekali adalah tentang “It takes a loss before you found it” bahwa memang kita harus tau rasanya sakit untuk tau rasanya senang..rasa2nya teoriku akan

“everything is an experience” memang benar dan Mr. Mraz juga memahaminya..

buat semuanya coba deh dengerin lagu ini..oke juga buat pengisi hari2 nan sepi…

semoga putaran roda hidup senantiasa bisa kita nikmati dan pahami seutuhnya

coz life is wonderfull and meaningfull

my oh my (lil fact bout POtassium-tht u guy praise for-)

is an essential mineral macronutrient in human nutrition; it is the major cation (positive ion) inside animal cells, and it is thus
important in maintaining fluid and electrolyte balance in the body.

A shortage of potassium in body fluids may cause a potentially fatal condition known as hypokalemia (see article for detail), typically resulting from diarrhoea, increased diuresis and vomiting. Deficiency symptoms include muscle weakness, paralytic ileus, ECG abnormalities, decreased reflex response and (in severe cases) respiratory paralysis, alkalosis and arrhythmia.

Eating a variety of foods that contain potassium is the best way to get an adequate amount. Healthy individuals who eat a balanced diet rarely need supplements. Foods with high sources of potassium include orange juice, potatoes, bananas, soybeans, avocados, apricots, pomegranates, parsnips and turnips, although many other fruits, vegetables, and meats contain potassium. Research has indicated that diets high in potassium can reduce the risk of hypertension.

jadi rek, teman2ku yang tercinta yang notabene kalian adalah makhluk yang terpelajar (walopun bukan seorang chemist) janganlah salah kaprah dan salah paham, dan lagi kalo gak ngerti terus dikasih tau tuh didengerin jangan dikacangin aja. bahwa sebenarnya kata2 yang sering sekali kalian ucapkan akhir2 ini (trutama teguh, anggi, n dodi) adalah kesalahan, bahwa hal yg kukatakan tentang potassium alias kalium itu bener dan jauh dari arti kata yg kalian maksutkan. sebenernya yang kalian maksutin itu mungkin potas (bahasa indonesia n basanya para nelayan untuk kalium nitrat ato kalium kromat yg dipake buat peledak). jadi tolong jadilah mahasiswa (trutama debater) yang bener, pake basa yang tepat dan jangan asal. coba bayangin kalo kalian ngomong “racun aja ama potasium” didepan debater ato orang yg tau lainnya, pasti memalukan kan??